Now when we both got home from work everything was fine. I never made mention of her dissatisfaction at all. The text messages went like this
W: u r off tomorrow???? Me: yes. Monday to Thurday 10 hrs a day equals 40 hrs W: wth! ru working saturday? Me: No I'm not on restorations W: ugh! wth! what about next week? Me: 40hrs next week. Just be thankful I'm working W: ha ha ha!!!! really??? seriously??? Me:Ya seriously. What's ur problem? W: nada!
I realize this is an old post, but I can really relate to this.
Although my problem was working too much, her reaction was the same. She was pissed b/c I worked too much and money wasn't everything. When I told her I would be having X number of days of each month from then on out, she was again pissed b/c I would make less money.
I explained how I can not work less and earn more, and that my deal was pretty good. I think at this stage though, she just wanted me to be the one doing everything wrong.
Did she ever explain her reactions?
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
