I really don't want him to go and I told him one more time, do not get involved but he just thinks he has to help H. M can be put aside. And he thinks he is very right. So...I tried. And I regret thinking he was a friend who would understand this. It's just so stupid he thinks he has the responsibility and right to save my H right now, ASAP. And I feel like he will definitely cause more harm now. For sure. I wish I could talk to H, but that's probably worse. I wish i could talk to someone to stop him from doing so. But...I don't even think H's parents would work. This is just a mess. And yeah, I agree with what you said once he's M'd.
