I did what MrBond suggested. I didn't lie or trick, just shared the positive things in my life.

After a while I quit though.
I noticed how her FB pace followed mine.
If I was active, she would be really active and vice versa.
So, I took my FB'ing to an absolute minimum. I wanted to truly GAL instead of concentrating on FBGAL.

If you want, try it out. You can always stop if it becomes a race or consumes too much time.

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.