If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[wont_stop]

At this point, we have come to an agreement on settlement papers. We will proofread and sign the agreement on the 20th of November. We are cordial, but she is still involved with the other man. She has no intention of ending the infidelity. I'm keeping to the 180 and preparing to move out at the end of the month. We agreed the separation started in July and so the divorce will occur in July of 2013.

I still wish I could save the marriage, but she is not trying at all. She went with him to a conference two weeks ago and to her college reunion. He has moved nearby and they see each other almost every day. I'm still her backup plan, as she tries every day to say it will be okay and be nice, but she shows no signs of coming back.

It's just a damned shame, but there is not much I can do if she won't come to her senses.