Last night, as mentioned in previous post, I put a motivational quote on Facebook. It said something to the effect of:
"You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could’ve, would’ve happened…or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move on"
Today, I get a text from H:
H: You should be a comedy writer...facebook posts are hysterical...victim
H: FYI..removing you from the cell phone accout right now
Me: Can you wait until later so I can have contact with the girls afterschool?
H: Too late
So, I emailed him this:
me: That was very nasty and unfair treatment of me today. You have left me to have no contact with my kids after school, and they both are going in different directions. I don't think that this was a fair way to handle things:(
His response:
Don't know how you can use the word "unfair" when you talk to me.
Consider it one of the pieces of the puzzle on the floor... you have been unfair to me too... sorry but I have things I need to do and I'm getting them done as I can...
Just call sprint and reactivate the line on your own plan... it'll take you 15 minutes... Even if you don't have the 15 minutes, I think you'll still be able to get in touch with the children. I'm pretty sure you'll go and tell them, "Look what you're dad did to me!" Have some grace and stop trying to paint yourself as a victim and look for sympathy and pity all the time
I am so upset over this. Did I do the wrong thing by emailing or putting a quote on facebook? I can tell you that TONS of people responded to my post on facebook and also, tons of people like it...so maybe he was pissed when he saw my support? I feel like I made a wrong choice somewhere? I need advice?
I am not responding to his email..just gotta go out and get my own phone tonight.
M:36 H:36 D14, D11, Baby due in March M:15 T:18 Met OW: 3/12 H Moved out: 8/12 Legal Sep: 11/5/12
