"he got this idea in his head that he is trying to help my H with his life!!!"
Yeah. I would cut him off as a friend.
"he's worried H is going to hit bottum hard and he wants to prevent that."
The whole point of your H's journey is that he HAS to hit rock bottom. Your "friend" is a typical rescuer personality. He's going to be in for a rude awakening when he gets M'd and finds himself here.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
