I dunno; people in affairs automatically lose about 30 I.Q. points in my experience. Maybe she forgot the last time was so close to your separation date?
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Absolute Divorce in North Carolina In North Carolina absolute divorces are usually obtained based on one year's separation. After you and your spouse have lived separate continuously for one year, without resuming the marital relationship, either of you may obtain an absolute divorce. Attempts at reconciliation marked by isolated instances of sexual intercourse will not automatically end the period of continuous separation. However, instances of sexual intercourse and nights spent together may add to the totality of circumstances sufficient to cause a court to find that you have voluntarily renewed the marital relationship. Should a court so find, the twelve month clock will be reset.
Maybe she forgot the last time was so close to your separation date?