Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part II)

[Breakdown]

Hey AS. I wanted to add my thanks to everyone else's here. You have really taken a lot of time to help people on the board. Your insights are really helpful, even when it's someone else's sitch.

The x-mas thing is tough. Fast forward a year or two....if you are with OW and she is with OM, do you think you'll be getting together on x-mas for the kids sake?

My biggest concern all along has been that I would move along and THEN W would want to come back.

I am totally with you on this....our sitches are different, but I still feel like this is how it will go.