AS

About christmas, I've been thinking alot about it also.
I will spend christmas eve with mother and family. She told me we could invite my X.

I would like for us to be all together for christmas, even though S may not be old enough to fully comprehend.

But
I'm leaning towards not inviting her.
She left. If we can't renconcile, then this will be the reality sooner or later anyway.
I haven't dropped the rope.
I still care for her.
I would like for all of us to spend christmas eve toghether.
I DON'T want to stay stuck in this uncertain place though.


Do you think it would be akward?
That maybe you kids would pick up the tension? Or maybe there is not a lot of tension?
I'm guessing your kids will have a good time regardless what you decide smile

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.