Today I found a post from her gf on her FB page that said ,When writing the story of your life, don't let someone else hold the pen. My W clicked the like button and commented, So very true . I have a gut feeling that's about me. SIGH....
Don't put a lot of weight in what she posts on FB. It takes a half second of thought to click the "like" button. Perhaps her mind did drift to your relationship, maybe it didn't. Even if it did, the saying is true. She holds the pen. You can't write her back into your M. You're only in control of yourself.
Go be the best person you can be. Be the person she'd be a fool to leave. And if she does leave, you'll still be a better person. Take that pen and write your life and who you want to be.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
