You are absolutely right FY. The thing is, a lot of it feels like a game. It's difficult to do it if you're not into playing games but the whole "act as if" and be mysterious and even PMA to a certain extent are all part of a big trick not only to "fool" your W into holding off for a bit (if not coming back) but to fool yourself into getting back up.
The thing is,these tools are just that. Tools meant to help us get out of a rut and become better people which in turn might get our S to reconsider their position. I guess if you fake your changes you are indeed playing a dishonest game but if your changes are real and lasting, then you have a chance at building a genuine and lasting relationship.
Cheers mate!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
You are absolutely right FY. The thing is, a lot of it feels like a game. It's difficult to do it if you're not into playing games but the whole "act as if" and be mysterious and even PMA to a certain extent are all part of a big trick not only to "fool" your W into holding off for a bit (if not coming back) but to fool yourself into getting back up. 
