I just wanted to thank all of you who helped me through dealing with my separation and divorce. Things are going good for me thus far. Still looks like Ex is searching in life and probably will be for some time. D2 is growing by leaps and bounds and I am making the most out of every moment I have with her.
I wanted to share 2 books which helped change my perspective on things a little.
1) I hate you, Don't leave Me! a book on Borderline Personality Disorder.
2) The Power of Intention by Wayne Dyer.
The 1st book seems to fit ex's behavior perfectly and helps me understand a whole lot more, plus helps generate more compassion for her despite her behavior.
The 2nd book has help me the most, in dealing with things. This book has beautiful put into words my philosophy and belief on life that I have always had, but have forgotten to implement over the past few years. I am now getting back to basics and it is working!
I will continue to lurk and help out if I have anything to add. I am stil working on my own stuff so I don't feel very qualifed to do much yet!
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
