SG you are right. I let my emotions get the better of me. I did apologize to my W but I don't think she cares. Based on her comments Sunday about not having that warm and fuzzy feeling when I'm around I believe she really is done. I believe we can have a new marriage a better one the one we both want but she seems unwilling to try or do the work. She has major issues with letting go of the past and its understandable. I know I may be mind reading here but based on her actions I see no fwd movement on her part. We have been in limbo since Feb I'd say. Living as roommates.
I also know she has a gf who is getting divorced and I think her gf is telling my W to move on. Today I found a post from her gf on her FB page that said ,When writing the story of your life, don't let someone else hold the pen. My W clicked the like button and commented, So very true . I have a gut feeling that's about me. SIGH.... Thx for talking to me SG. I have a tough road ahead.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out