anotherstander thanks so much for your reply!

yes it was harch but in all honesty not as harch as ive treated my wife.i have only read that few of pages because i find my self either living on this site or taking care of my kids. since this has all happened i really have switched alot of my old ways. its really crazy how getting the bomb dropped on you really does make you take a close hard look at our life. i know this is going to be a long hard fight but reading stories on here makes me feel somewhat hopeful. because of this site i have been able to really give her her space. just because it gives me somewhere to go to pass my time. i am wanting to know how i should respond to her, we see eachother everyother day to switch the kids and i have been really good on acting as if everything in my life is ok. but im wondering what should i do when she sends me texts on what im doing, or when she calls to talk to the kids at night should i answer? im also wanting to know how i react when i see her and she sparks up conversation? im really trying to work on myself and GAL even tho alot of the time i feel like curling up into a ball. anyways thanks for any advice and for the response!


M: 25 W:23
M: 4 years
T: 10 years
S:5
S1
BD: 8/20/12
Sep: 11/12