New to DB and Clearly Oblivious to My "Horrible" M

[NickB]

So, enough focus on her for now.

I am sure it appears that I am focusing too much on her -- and I do -- on here specifically because I need the help and advice.

I have been better about working on GAL which is hard with little ones always around and in need, but I am using times with them to meet other people as well.

Are you reading any of the resources? Found a therapist?

I am reading the book you suggested but still working on a therapists that specializes in this area. Hard to find on our remote area. Not sure I want to do this by phone. I am plugging away researching through.