Thanks for bringing up the holidays as I am grappling with it right now myself...and I am sure we all are...What about the kids what do they want and have you taken in their feelings and thoughts? My kids really want me to go to Mil house but it is awkward as my inlaws are funding this whole thing...paying for my W to live and such....Our C thinks I should go for the kids sake..I just don't know..if I don't it will look like I am acting selfish.
I see what you are saying what if you don't want W back and she wants to come back....
