Wow, They sound like some great 180's If nothing else you will be such a better person for it and I'm sure your D8 will appreciate it more than you will ever know. Having someone constantly so angry over such small things can be sooo physically and mentally draining.
Yeah, I've been working at this for about 5 months now. Meditation helps a lot but the main thing is to be aware.
Unfortunately, although she noticed the changes, W doesn't WANT to believe in them. I think they just don't match with her plans right now. She really wants to be DONE. After all, it was probably hard to leave. In fact she had to do it by email while I was in another country. That's ok though. I've got time on my side and I'm also learning to be patient. As yo said, I'll be(am) a much better person no matter what.
Thanks SS
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then