Stopping by to check out your sitch and it reads as though things are moving.
I think the danger now is pressuring in any way. I think you are tempted to see how far you can push about R and you shouldn't..

She is coming to you and I swear it is like feeding deer. Anyway quick movement and they are gone!

Validate, listen and interact. I hope someday I will be in your position because it looks like a positive one,