Can This Be Salvaged?

[leopoldstotch]

I'm really having a hard time grasping how my W can be so engrossed in the things that happened in the past. She still brings up things that happened over 20 yrs ago.

Sunday night was a bad night. I really fell off the DB wagon and spoke out of anger and frustration over our sitch and my W getting on me about work and her telling me how I feel. She has it in her head that I'm depressed and just want her to feel sorry for me.

I was sure before that I was ready to give up on my M but now I dont want to especially since my W really seems adamant about us being done. Just this morning she called from work very angry telling me to take my "married" status off of Facebook and now I find out she is going to her sisters on Thanksgiving and I'm on my own. SIGH....