I agree with OGDA. You need to think positively. I especially agree with his thoughts on "what others think". If you cheat or divorce him without cause they have a right to "think". If you make what turns out as a bad decision a bad decision have them watch the Brett Farve commercial (Green Bay Quarterback) who goes around in the commercial "Monday morning quarterbacking" a bunch of bad results. And they are WRONG to do that to you.
