He's Just Not That Into You

[mamabird]

If I were to rate our marriage before MC from 1-10. I'd give it a 4. 10 is living together and committing to the relationship. Now i'd say a 7. So we're moving along. I hope that gives you some hope ;-)

Thanks Vero. It does give me some hope. I'd say we were at a 1 when this all started and now we're at about a 3 or 4. Not great but it's progress...

I guess my only advice for now would be PATIENCE.

Nail, I think that's about it. Not much else I can do except be there.

I don't know what extent your support from friends and family is but is it possible for you to get more involved in activities GAL so you can focus less on him and more on things that can bring you happiness and satisfaction?

Luckily, for GAL's sake, the crazy is just about to start. Thanksgiving, then S8's birthday, Hanukkah and Christmas. Plus a little cookie decorating party that I committed to do... I'll have plenty to worry about. I always take care of everything having to do with the holidays and I'm sure this year will be no exception. No surprise, right? I love Thanksgiving though and I'm so excited to be cooking it this year in my new house.

So, as if things weren't confusing enough, I was giving H his nightly back rub (I asked him if he wanted one and he said yes), and then I was ready to leave and he starts rubbing my foot with his leg. I asked him if that meant he wanted me to stay... yes... so of course one thing leads to another. It's been about 6 weeks now. Who knows what that was about, wonder if it had anything to do with the MC session or if it was just a coincidence? I didn't ask and I'm not assuming anything has changed.