Dealing with the reality of separation

[Denver_2010]

The whole "I don't think my W remembers ANYTHING I say" is all about selective listening. She HEARD you but part of her is CHOOSING NOT to remember and process that part of what you said b/c it contradicts w what she is consciously CHOOSING TO DO.

BUt if she chooses not to hear it the first time you can bet she will make that same choice if you say it again ...until she is ready to actually WANT to hear it.

Exactly! ^^^