The "wanting space" and "feeling pressured" by you is the same in my sitch. Also, the in-house separation and S doing there own thing is same. I understand how you feel Regretful, it's tough feeling rejected everyday by your S. It's also very challenging to detach and BD while living in the same house. I struggle with all of these things. I think the MC is a good thing, and i would try to continue that with your H on a regular basis is possible. I know my W feels like that is the only place she feels safe to talk about our R, so it's really our last resort for any real communication. In time, alot of truth comes out of both of us. We have different goals, hers is to get to a place where I'm comfortable with a D and we can have one amicably .Mine is reconciliation. Our therapist is pro marriage, but deals with us from a neutral place so that we both feel safe. I guess my only advice for now would be PATIENCE.
Me:46 W:40 M:10 T:17 D:9 S:6 BD:12/11 ILYBINILWY:8/12 Served 2/13 I moved out 2/13 I moved back 6/13 W moved out 9/13