Sending you lots of hugs. This must be what it feels like to swim upstream.

I can tell you that from our experience with the MC, we had deeper conversations on the drive home from the session than during the session. It took some drives (and sometimes me getting out of the car and walking home half way there!) to get to where we are now.

And we're not where I'd like us to be but we're a heck of a lot closer than when we started MC.

If I were to rate our marriage before MC from 1-10. I'd give it a 4. 10 is living together and committing to the relationship. Now i'd say a 7. So we're moving along. I hope that gives you some hope ;-)


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017