MrBond, thanks, I was close to his dad and he thought the world of me too...but I was shut out by H when his dad was dying but I did talk to FIL every week and went to see him with the kids, when it was FIL birthday in July apparently FIL yelled at H that I be invited to his party. Miss him alot.
Sunny, thankyou for the welcome. I'm following you're thread too, hang in there.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending