The only thing that would make your friend so adamant about "healing" your H is if he had gone through the same type of transition. The fact that he said he's doing it to not save your M is a horrible thing to do.
What is your friend's life like? Is he M'd?
He thinks he understands people's pain. He doesn't understand this. He kept saying my H needs his help. And yeah, I wanted to say how can you not care about the M. But I didn't, cuz I wasn't able to change his mind. He said people should just take M as a not so big portion in their life.
He is not M'd. He ended a long relationship a while ago. Has a GF now.
