Hello my friends, Today I went to the visit, my wife was tired and so was my son, because she was away for the week-end to visit her sister and having fun, while I, like a looser, stayed bored at home, literally counting the hours for the visit. It wasn't a great visit, wife was cold, her dad was always in the middle of us, interrupting our conversation and all!
That's it, I sent the first email asking for the kid. Yes it's soft, but I need a basis for the second email to be tougher. I won't have to wait long for her to say no.
In the second email, I'll tell her it would be good for us to meet and discuss some details before I go see the lawyer and have the order issued. Clear enough? Then she'll know I MEAN BUSINESS!. She'll know that the charade is over. No more parents interfering. No more 1h visits. No more her deciding to leave AND keeping the kid, like I was the leaver ! Yes, she's going to be sore pissed off. But she already left and lives at her parents. And I tried all the goodwill in the world, and she hasn't given me an inch! Enough is enough.
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012