And I Continue Forward... Through the Silence

[Denver_2010]

but what am I protecting myself from?

I don't have the answer for you.

I know for me, there would be some expectation there (I know, there shouldn't be, just being real). And it's continuing to act like her H, even tho that R is no longer what it was.

If you can do it with NO expectations or agenda, go for it.

Protecting yourself from the probability that your gesture will barely be noticed. That your gesture will be secondary to whatever she gets from OM...

How about that? Put it in perspective?