I guess one q I have would be if I'm doing the right thing by not asking him to sleep in the bed with me? I have read this type of confusion before here, and it might sound a little backwards, but do I need to let him know he can come back into the bed, or just leave him alone until he decides (if he decides) to sleep with me on his own? Things have been so positive compared to the previous weeks, that I feel like maybe I should take some of the pressure off of him. On the other hand, I never asked him not to sleep in our bed, I'm just going on with my life and not mentioning it. He does realize we're married, and that I'm not going to tell him no, if he decides to come back. I guess I can't tell yet if he's just being stubborn, doesn't want to, or is hurt by me. Or all of them. I don't want to undo all the good progress we've made, but sometimes it's a delicate balance in knowing when to offer your hand and when to just nod and smile for a while. Thanks...
