Interesting thing, when I read the post, I had the same thoughts as ss.

Not piling on but sometimes the things that raise our hackles are the things that we need to think about.

That's been my experience.

I'll stay out of your thread, too.

Take care and good luck.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss