Here is a thread that might be of interest to you and other readers written by a good friend of mine, M Go Blue.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=154953&page=1

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.