Hi Greymeadow.

Just found your thread; welcome to this place we don't want to be.

It sounds like you're doing a good job despite your pain. Kudos.

Good luck with tonight's visit. Hang in there.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.