Originally Posted By: Starsky309
But it's precisely when your spouse starts down the divorce path that I would advise anyone to jettison ANY sort of "Oooh, I don't want to make him/her angry!" thoughts of mollification.


Hmmm, I don't know. I think if it were me on a fast track to file due to issues I had with my spouse, her trying to pull the rug out from under me with some tough love technique would only speed up my determination to continue. Maybe that's just me, and again, I don't beleive Arsene is in this tense position anyway.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl