1) well this one started off as a negative but turned into a positive. my hubby is usually the one who calls me during the day, well he wasn't calling me so i called him, three times, but each time it was for a valid reason, and each time, he sounded REALLY distant - so of course, stinkin thinkin took over
my last call was at 1:30 - i said to myself, i aint calling him again. he calls at 5:30 (usually home around 4) and tells me he is going to be even later than this cause he is at someone's house fixing thier computer
well pms got the better of me, and MORE OF THE SAME bitchy attitude came out - i was short and he knew right away that something was wrong - he went ahead and left the guys house and on his way home he called back
i was in no mood to talk - my runaway thinking had already taken over, and i had him sleeping around with every two bit whore on the planet by that time - but he kept pushing it
so i finally caved in (180 for me) - i told him about his calls, how they sounded to me, he told me why they sounded that way - i apologized (another 180) and he came home, told everyone to get their shoes on he was taking us out to dinner (and a haircut for me and him)
we had a fabulous time!!! went out and had wings and beer, and listened to a guy play some music!!! whew, came out of that one unscathed
2) had a very unsettleing phone call on wednesday with my 82 year old mother who lives 6500 miles away from me, one of those, oh my god calls - something is not right and something is going to happen to her
well she called me yesterday and told me she was feeling MUCH better and for me not to worry!!!!
3) hubby actually told me that just for curiousity sake yesterday he stopped by a house that was for rent to see what the deal was, cause it was awfully cute - way too much for us, but the fact is he considered moving us into something much nicer which is a hopeful. at least i took it to mean he is still thinking of our future together
