I agree with not starting the conversation. The reason being that it is pressure to her. Maybe there was a time she would have loved you doing it, but not now.

There is so much about men that are of a pursuing nature. That is usually what women like.....but not a WAW. Any type of pursuit from you will totally turn her off.

I'm glad you asked, b/c I'm sure you were looking at starting a conversation about her day as showing you are interested in her. You have to do the opposite of what you really feel like you should be doing...in nearly everything at this point in the stitch.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!