I am so sorry your h is being such an a@s. Really.
He is so far in the tunnel he doesnt know which end is up.
To answer your question. IMO, no, you do not have to listen to that.
Understand that he has no clue what he is doing. Hard to believe, I know. But think about it, would a rational person not in a crisi talk to their wife like this?
So, politely tell him that you do not want to discuss this and if he persists, walk out of the room.
He doesnt get a pass because he is in crisis. He is still responsible for his actions.
And I am not at all surprised he doesnt remember what he told you about leaving. They are messed up all up in their head.
