I can understand why he was upset about the barn roof and his things getting wet. I would have gotten upset too. However, this is all part of the consequences of his actions and he could always hire someone to come out there and repair the roof, but he most likely won't. BTW, it's not your fault that Sandy came through and tore the roof paper off. It's an act of God and he needs to realize that he should have completed the project a while ago. If he's all that worried about his stuff, he can move to a storage facility. Oh, well...he's going to learn the hard way.
I may be wrong, but I don't think he's thinking clearly and most likely wasn't feeling ashamed or embarrassed about getting your hopes up and then bashing them to the ground. All he had on his mind was his "stuff" and being pissy because you, mom, wouldn't let Boy Wonder come and work on his roof.
No more texting...stay nc for a while. You need to find your balance. Wanting to contact or stay in touch w/them once they are pod people is like an addiction. You have to learn how to break that addiction in order to find your balance and not be upset or distracted w/the what ifs, why's or when's.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
