Actually, I cancelled the plans and told him Not to come. I had a really busy day and we went shopping on Friday at an outlet mall so I need to stay home.
I didn't hear back from H after I texted "Not going tonight, don't feel well, thanks anyway."
One of the things he raged about was the barn on Sat before he stormed out. Sandy pulled the roof paper off the barn. H had never finished the barn roof with shingles so the paper flew right off in the winds. He was upset with me because HIS things were getting wet in the barn. He wanted to come yesterday to fix the barn room by putting a tarp up. I told him NO. I imagine he is pissy today because it's been pouring down rain. I still don't want him here. Took me a full day yesterday to recover from Sat and I'm tired. Just woulda been nice to have received a response, but I will get on without it.
Reminded him on Sat, this is NOT his house anymore. Prob went to OW and whined about how I unloaded on HIM. Whatever. I'm just conjecturing. I suppose it's just as likely he is ashamed and embarrassed for getting my hopes up last week and then dashing them to the ground.
Was surprised though that he texted D10. Maybe he actually heard some of what I said on Sat. Who knows. I know that-at least part of him-must want to be with all of us like he said last week...He's just so nuts right now. I'd rather he went far away until he comes back to his senses.
Thanks, Heather
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