IMHO, I would. When he wanted to go out as a family, I would have said, sorry but I don't think it's appropriate to go out with me when you are engaged to another woman. "wishing, hoping don't play that!"
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.