You fellas need to chill. She heard you. Chances are she is starting to believe the changes and knows better than to ask.
I totally understand what you're saying, but in the case of my W she has been forgetting some pretty significant conversations, sometimes just in a matter of days. We'll talk about something noteworthy and then days later she'll say something contradictory and I'll say "but what about a few days ago when you said 'x'" and she'll scrunch up her face and say "I don't remember saying that" and I really don't think she does. This is very unlike my W and makes me wonder if perimenopause is affecting her memory (she's recently reported getting hot flashes). The point being I don't think I can count on her remembering ANYTHING we've talked about.
