My friend told me that GF has said to her, "if he really loved me he would just let me and the kids do whatever we want" in regards to the car.
In other words, "if he really loves me he will be my doormat and not complain about it." Some people really do think that's what love is.
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She tells me that she doesn't know right now. I wait awhile and ask if she'll talk to me about it since she said she would. She tells me that she's spending time with her family, she doesn't have an answer, and I just keep pushing and coming at her with it.
Don't start any R talks. They never go where you want them to.
Originally Posted By: jzoom
Does this seem positive to anybody else?
The part about her staying out drinking until 5 am and supposedly not enjoying it? No. It would be positive if for the next 2 months she doesn't repeat that behavior. That's the only way you'll know that she truly didn't like it.
