I've decided at this point and time that sharing too much with others actually keeps me more confused, and more torn up emotionally. I've decided that I must decide how to deal with my XH and whatever goes on between us on my own. I have better tools and education on what's really going on. The detatchment has allowed me to really look back and really see just WTH XH was trying to tell me in the beginning of all this.

I agree with this completely Kimmerz.

Other people, friends, even family, will mean well. Yet, we need to remember the R we had was between us and our H and nobody else. We know/see things that others cannot/do not.


SB, How ARE you doing? The pregnancy? The new job? Any cravings? lol. I LOVED Reese's peanut butter cups when I was pregnant...lol (i am still carrying some of those cups around my bum up until today :-))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home