Dealing with the reality of separation

[Just A Guy]

You are absolutely in a similar place as I... My anxiety stems from not being able to do anything to "help" or "fix" her and her feelings.. In the past I have always been able to help her and fix things. Now we are in the sitch where there is no one but THEM who can fix or help the sitch in regards to the M and R.

WAS's will have pride, guilt, friends and even dreams which stop them from making the logical decision to reconcile and come back to the marriage. Meanwhile We LBS's are stuck dealing with the anxiety, fear, stress and the "not knowing" all while trying to maintain our marital promises...