What a great place AS....this is what it is about, having the strength to detach completely.
My C knows how I feel about H and she says you are in that grey area, but it doesn't mean that you will be at the beginning forever, there is still a path to travel. While it could end in reconciliation, divorce, friendship, it could also end with the realization that with all the work you have done yourself, that there may be a day when you don't want them back.
I love and miss my H, he was my best friend. It doesn't mean that one day I won't move on.
