Overall, I think you have lots of reasons to be HOPEFUL--she is noticing your communication behavior, she wants to do "fun things" together this weekend, she hasn't moved out and she is spooning you at night (at least sometimes) to mention a few!
Be patient
Thank you, turtlegirl. Your post honestly REALLY helped me get through the weekend with a more positive attitude. "Be Patient" kept resonating through my head whenever I would become frustrated.
Originally Posted By: Bestgal
Hey, just stopping by to say hello. I read through (most of ) your posts and I have to say, aside from a couple of things here and there, your story is much like mine and my H. We don't have a child but he's doing a lot of the same behaviors your W is doing. It's not easy, but she does sound like she loves you. It's hard when they're confused and not acting like they were just a few short weeks or months ago. But from what you wrote, you sound like you're doing the good work and getting some results. Keep it up, I (and everyone here) know how tough this can be...seriously!
Thanks, bestgal. I appreciate you stopping by my thread!
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
