You are so focused on the summit (reconciliation), that you are unable to see the necessary steps to get there. It begins with taking the first step. The only person stopping you, is the one you see in the mirror every morning.
You know what they say about excuses. No more excuses. They are only obstacles if you allow to be.
I want to share this with you. I have a friend who is in the midst of a D, which has been going on for over a year. He has all the tools at his disposal. He has read DR and has seen IC, etc. He refuses to utilize them for a multitude of reasons. Not only has there been little progress towards R with his wife. He still keeps his focus on his W and gets to sit in the front row of the emotional rollercoaster.
Don’t let that be you.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
