As much as I see this point, I still feel like I m ahead from where I was a few months ago. Is this really progress or am I just going down a cheeseless tunnel?
I guess my question to you would be the same as the one I asked myself not too long ago- are you measuring progress through what is happening to you personally, or what is happening in your R with your W? Because you have 100% control over one and little if any control over the other. One leads to personal growth, improvement and enlightenment. The other to disappointment and confusion. One can influence improvement in the other, but not the other way around. I'm sure I don't have to tell you which is which
You can really tell where people are in this journey by their posts, if they're working on themselves then their posts highlight a lot of self-reflection; but if they're mired in trying to fix their R, their posts are very spouse-based.
