Last week, H was "missing us fiercely" and wanted to come over everyday. When I pressed him on whether OW was still in the picture, he finally admitted she was and I put the cabash on his "visits" and "help." H was angry and blaming and mean.
He went, within 72 hours, of reminding me I was "never Plan B" to considering OW meeting our D18 and admitting to D18 and I that he spends a lot of time at her apt. It hurt. Part of me was hoping maybe she was outta the picture. She's not.
So, back to NC. Haven't heard anything. Trying to remember his crapola isn't about me. He started this train wreck and he will have to see it out. I guess it's a good sign or, at least, nice to know that the real H is still in there and actually does regret what he's done to us. I'm glad I received a sincere apology. Too bad he's chosen to continue the hurtful behavior--at least today.
Hang in there--I am.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
