Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part II)

[Am I Too Late]

Patience my Friends.

It took years for our S's to get to this place and making their decisions and it may take that long to rekindle the flames.

Why did you sign up here in the 1st place?

Yes, GAL and detach so the carnage does not destroy who you are, but hang onto what you believed in, until you are absolutely certain that you have changed your life's relationship goals.

I am learning from your earlier posts and from so many others as well and i dread coming to the conclusion that someday i wouldn't want my W back in my life in a loving and compassionate manner.

I have sunk down to 0% left to give at many stages and each time, said what else have i not tried yet and revitalized my focus on my true original goal.

But, we all come to our own decisions in our own time frame and still need to be supported.

Ed