Just tell her about the book, don't mention that you post on the forums. If she finds her way to the forums the chances have got to be really small that she would find your posts and figure out who's making them. There are so many different people and threads on here that it just seems unlikely she'd put it together unless you told her you post here.
I am just going to hold off on telling her all together. I can give her some sound advice with DB principles if she asks me but I think you are right. This website is for me, not for the others involved in my situation. Thanks! :b
Me - 32 Wife - 31 No kids Married - 3 Together - 6 "I need space" - July 2012 Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012 Separation - September 2012